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What Really Holds A True Man (Part 1)



I recall an event that occurred on children's day. I and my friends took some children to Shoprite to have a feel of their day. We left them at the children fun park and went into the mall to get them some stuff as refreshment. On getting back to them, they all came clamouring for water and we didn't prepare for that. All we got them was juice ,pies and the likes. Looking around and seeing we couldn't get quick access to water, my noticed a tap around the mall that has good water and got a bottle to distribute it to them. Funny they all left their refreshment and went for the water first. This same also goes for what can really hold a man. Sex and Food are undeniable love of every man(though to a different proportion). So also, fun is to every kid, but there is always a call for what is more lasting or more valuable than that. Value has been discovered to be that water every man (reasonable men) will be ready to drop all odds for. Sex has been so cheap and so readily available that it has become so worthless and it can't hold a man at all even if there are kids. There has been various issues of guys having many sex partners in the name of having girlfriends. And the 'girlfriends' mainly offer sex and the food he needs but at the end, when he sees another lady, he dumps them for her. A woman who thinks to hold her man with all that is losing him already. I view all those kind of women as canteens that are only visited at will. A woman with only sex to offer is just like that. There would always be a time the man desires something more serious and once you can't provide that he kicks you out. There have been trends of men buying gifts for their ex because of the value they have brought to their life. Research show that most ladies that offer sex in view to holding their man after breaking up with them never even get a birthday wish from them. And even when they do, it is usually a disguise for another nightstand. This issue has made guys view some ladies as without much value which is not always true. If sex could hold a man then all prostitutes would be married by now. Addition of value to the game makes you on top of it. You could be a good cook and be dirty, no man will want that. Note I'm not writing of being a good cook as a lady all I'm saying is that the recent occurrence calls for more. Now what are those values an ideal man is in search of? Watch out for the part 2 for that.

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